April 21, 2003
Chaplain brings calm to service families
By NORA K. WALLACE
NEWS-PRESS STAFF WRITER
Maj. David Terrinoni likes to say that on the battlefield, military
chaplains bring a little sanity to an insane situation.
Though he wasn't deployed to the war in Iraq, the Vandenberg Air
Force Base senior Protestant chaplain has spent the past few months
counseling service men and women readying to deploy, as well as
their families. Some teens on base, for example, have talked to
him because they were afraid of what might happen if their parents
were sent to the battle zone.
The war and conflicts in Afghanistan and elsewhere have drawn more
than 200 men and women away from Vandenberg for months at a time.
As they prepared to leave, many came to the base chapel for religious
counseling, as did their spouses and children. The minister himself
has been deployed to Northern Ireland, Malaysia and three times
to Bosnia. Last year, he was part of Operation Enduring Freedom,
though he can't disclose where he went.
"It is a challenge," he said. "And it's a good opportunity
for ministry. This is where chaplains earn their bread and butter.
It's like firemen. You don't think about them until you need them.
And then you're so glad they're there. I hear that so often."
At Vandenberg, seven chaplains and five chaplain assistants serve
the base community. Of that group, two are deployed overseas, including
wing chaplain Lt. Col. Gary Bomberger. In his absence, Maj. Terrinoni
has assumed the acting wing chaplain title.
The 46-year-old officer is a "second career minister"
who was a salesman in Chicago when he felt called to the ministry
at age 29. He has been an active duty officer for 16 years, essentially
loaned from his church to the military.
"When I was in Chicago (at the seminary), my colleagues in
ministry tended to paint people in the military as warmongers,"
he recalled. "I have not found that to be true. I like to quote
(Gen.) Douglas MacArthur at his retirement, who said, 'A soldier
has to be the strongest proponent of peace because it's the soldier
who has to bear the sins and scars of war.'Ê"
Religion and war have historical linkages, and giving spiritual
guidance in time of conflict is essential, the chaplain said.
"The chaplain service is the safety outlet," he said.
"It's a safe place where people can talk, without retribution.
We're also charged by the Chaplain Corps to deal not only with the
spiritual and moral issues, but also the ethical issues."
During the first Gulf War, the minister had a session with a commander
at a previous base who was very concerned about the ethical issues
involved in fighting a war. Though the officer intended to do his
duty, he needed counseling to reconcile his religious beliefs with
his charge as a serviceman.
With this war, similar issues emerged. On the day before President
Bush authorized military attacks on Iraq, Maj. Terrinoni had two
visitors.
"I talked to one commander who was sharing his anxiety of
the unknown," the minister recalled. "Also, on the same
day, I had an airman sharing the same things. Even though there
was a 10-, 12-, 15-year age difference, the feelings were very common
and very normal."
Many people in the military, he said, "don't know how to ask
for help, or are afraid because they think it's a sign of weakness.
We try to be inviting. We're out with the troops and are there for
spouses who need to unload."
As well as handling the usual concerns by families separated by
deployments, the clergy are also "dealing with obvious life
and death issues," the major said.
"When I went out, you knew life and death was a possibility,"
he said of his deployment last year. "There were terrorists,
al-Qaeda folks out there. Where I was, they captured an alleged
suicide bomber in the area where we were. That really brings reality
home."
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